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I have found this topic worthy of front page coverage because it is a topic that I have found myself in discussion with about four times in the past couple months with both members and non-members, and both males and females, that I believe is an important factor and great concern when considering a service.
It seems there is a large concern that both men and women harbor the same belief that someone they are looking for would not be involved in a dating service of sorts for various reasons. Having said that; I do not consider my company a "dating" service. It is our intent to match singles with others who are looking for long term relationships.....not just "dates". Of course we understand that you do start out with a date and some progress slowly to a meaningful relationship. We think of our service as a match-making or love connection service.
Back to the male vs. female topic.
Some of the ladies I talk to seem to believe that any man within their caliber wouldn't be involved in a service because women would be "falling at their feet" and they could court anyone they want. Some men in turn, seem to have the notion that it is easier for women to get dates and can have any man they want with a bat of her eye, and too would have the "pick of the litter" so-to-speak. When both parties believe the same about the other how do they ever connect?? One reason both males and females refrain from engaging in a conversation in public is the assumption "he/she must be taken".
I have also heard that some may be embarrassed by joining a service. I would just like to say that you should never feel this way. So many people join for so many different reasons pertaining to each individual's life; everyone has his/her own story and situation. There is nothing to be embarrassed about when joining a service; it is no different than a friend introducing you to someone...no one thinks twice about that. Plus, we are confidential (as in no public viewings) therefore, you don't even have to tell anyone you joined.
What all this boils down to is both men and women who believe this way are creating their own barriers between each other.
It would be almost impossible for two great people to meet who believe this.
If you close your mind off to the possibility that the type of person you are looking for would reach out for help to find you, based on our database, this is a mistake. We have beautiful men and women who are smart, fun, athletic, sincere (to name a few), and are just plainly stuck within their social circle where there is no interest for anyone and are tired of the "bar scene" (and sorts).
That's what our service is intended for....great people who, for one reason or another; find themselves at a brick wall. Please don't let stereotypes, bias opinions, or misperception & misconceptions stop you from believing your perfect match would be a member.
If you're someone who USE to believe this way ;) we truly hope you join us...it could be "fate" that you and your perfect match both just happened to finally decide to join, is already with us...or won't be far behind :)
Please check your nerves at the door!
Joining is easy breezy and stress/worry free!